Listening CHair: A Yizkor/Yahrzeit Companion, Spring 5781 /
Shirah Rubin

Credits

Listening Chair by Shirah Rubin

Video editing by Eliora Ancowitz & Olivia Huang

Projection by Sebastian Gonzalez Quintero

June 2021

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Future Iterations

Listening Chair for Family Reunions

I envision using the chair concept to make Listening Chairs that incorporate family tree images. What if I were to make a chair for everyone in my extended family, what would I uncover?  What are the Kotlowitz values that we each grew up with and that we pass on? I would create a family video for each family to spark conversation and memory sharing.

I would assemble a virtual or in-person family reunion and share the chair installation and videos for extended family to ask questions and witness.

My dream would be for this process to evolve into a new unfolding yahrzeit family tradition co-created with my extended family. 

I have been fascinated by the presence of absence for a long time and I was pleased that this Listening Chair ritual can be a container for memories, witness, and sharing. I look forward to making more chairs for my extended family.

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